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One Man’s Journey Through Sex Addiction Pt.3

Friday, June 5, 2009

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One Man’s Journey Through Sex Addiction Pt.3

Here is the finaly entry from Dr. Darryl Moore on his personal journey through sex addiction. Addiction chains us, breaks us, and corrupts us, but the great thing is, that is not the end of the story.....our redeemer lives.

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One Man’s Journey Through Sex Addiction Pt.2

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

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One Man’s Journey Through Sex Addiction Pt.2

Part 2 in a 3 part series, Dr. Moore continues to take us through his lifelong struggle with sexual addiction. Please read this as I believe a large percent of us men are on the brink of addiction and don't even realize it. It is time for a wake-up call.

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One Man’s Journey Through Sex Addiction Pt.1

Thursday, April 30, 2009

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One Man’s Journey Through Sex Addiction Pt.1

It's midnight and just like many other nights each week, I found myself in the home office in front of my computer again. All of my good intentions, the ones saturated with denial and rationalization, are to work on my dissertation. Soon my real intentions take over and a couple of clicks later the screen of boring black and white text changes to bright colors of pornography. I am lost now in the world that is so familiar to me. It's a world of fantasy and escape. I shut out all the pain and thoughts and feelings of my life. I push aside any sense of responsibility to do something more productive. I lose track of time as I travel deeper into my world of fantasy and escape. Suddenly I am jarred back to reality with that dreadful sound of my wife's voice. "What are you doing?" I have been caught again. My whole being is filled with shame and guilt. There are no words. I was stuck in silence. There was nothing I could say to make it better now. I clicked off the computer. She demanded to see what I was looking at. I just refused. She gives up and goes back to bed. This is a true life story about the journey of a sex addict. Please read it, it could be you.

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9 practical tips to control porn addiction

Thursday, February 19, 2009

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9 practical tips to control porn addiction

My struggles with the Internet are no small task, as my job requires constant attention to it. I do not need to tell you about the barrage of temptations in cyberspace. Advertising, even on innocuous sites can be risqué to disgustingly perverted. Internet, as a logical entity, enticed me. I could spend days online without stop, and not even noticing it. The Internet is easy, but it is not right. After waking up to this, I took up Job's covenant. "I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a girl." Job 31:1

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A Story of Addiction

Monday, February 9, 2009

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A Story of Addiction

As Scott Summers sat on the cold wooden floor of his parents’ kitchen, with his back leaning against the cabinets, he wondered if he had enough courage. He gripped the dark, wooden handle of the butcher’s knife and tapped the blade softly against the threads of his sweatshirt. He pulled the knife away, then pushed it forward, again and again, but never piercing the skin. “There’s gotta be another way to kill myself,” he thought. This past fall, reflecting on this day four and a half years ago, Summers said he was at one of the lowest points of his life from his drug and alcohol use. “Every day was the worst day of my life,” he said. “I was barely surviving.” Sitting just feet away from where he had pondered taking his life, Summers casually slurped down a bowl of Ramen noodles and talked about his rehabilitation in between spoonfuls. Wearing ripped jeans and a black T-shirt from Blink-182 drummer Travis Barker’s clothing line, he propped up his long legs on the chair next to him. “I feel pretty good about myself” now, he said, later adding, “If I didn’t have my faith, I wouldn’t have my sobriety.”

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